It can't be written

I was talking with some one yesterday and some how the person said "It's Already Written" I have heard that be for and I never gave it any thought, but for some reason it stayed on my mind. My life can't be pre written, if it is then there is nothing for me to do. My life will just happen and I will not have any control over it. What I do will not matter, what is written is what will happen? I just can not see it that way. I feel we write our lives every day, We control the script. We may have to answer for it in the end, but we write it. Things do not just happen and I am very sure that if I do nothing than nothing will happen. I know if I go out in the rain I will get wet, if I rob a bank I will go to jail. Now if I don't go out in the rain I will stay dry and if I don't rob a bank I will stay out of jail. Some people believe in fate, well I believe in fate also only with me fate is am equation, A=B. If you do A then B will happen. Action causes reaction and we control our actions, even when we don't know what the reaction will be. If our lives are written and what will be will be, how can we be held accountable for anything? Laws will have no meaning, how can you blame someone for doing or not doing what they had no control over? What about dreams? If dream of being a doctor and it is written that I will be a brick layer then no matter how much I study or how long I go to school I will never be a doctor, brick layer is written. Too many times we say oh it was ment to be, no it was not ment to be. It happened because someone did something that made it happen. We are the force in our lives and in the lives of others. We need to be more careful of what we do and how we do it. It is not written, every day we write it and if we don't it will not be written. Something to think about!